Pro's- you can go into your divorce with a lot of energy to get what you want and you know you will squeeze every penny out of the divorce settlement.
Cons - it will turn into a battle and you may lose sight of other important objectives in divorce such as maintaining some sort of relationship with your ex.
2) The Dormouse - If you are a dormouse you may be mistaken for a door mat. You will be meek, minimising your own wants and needs and be embarrassed or shy about asking for the necessary financial support.
Pro's - You won't have to stand up for yourself and a divorce agreement will come easily because you're not asking for anything.
Cons - you may find that your own lawyer is spending a lot of time trying to protect your interests and you may lose out financially because you are not claiming what you are entitled to.
3) The Mole - If you are in mole mode you will have a tendency to hide away underground, or at least under the duvet, when asked to make a difficult decision. You would rather be in your burrow than facing the world.
Pro's - you will protect yourself from some of the unpleasantness of divorce.
Cons - because you avoid decision-making you will leave all that legal and financial paperwork in a drawer until the last minute. Decisions will eventually get made but will not be the best ones you could have made.
4) The Elephant - If you are the elephant you prize family values, you want to stay with your herd and above all look after your children. Family togetherness will be important for you and significant in your divorce negotiations even if you are dealing with a rogue male!
Pro's - you will probably keep your family alongside you and your children will thrive well through divorce.
Cons - You may lose sight of yourself and your specific needs through the divorce process.